Daily so many things happen around us.
We meet so many people.We choose who is going to be with us after we meet them for the first time.
Always the First impression comes with a lifetime validity and becomes the last impression.
Some people come closer and sometimes we allow some people to let them come closer.
Relations grows us.We share the things.We make them part of our daily life.
We decorate our relation giving different names.We raise them in our priority orders.We start keeping exceptions.We keep practicing every effort to make our friends happy.And then suddenly one day...things go down,they starts seeming irritating,they starts seeming time consuming,they start seeming of secondary importance.We start showing "ME & I" factors,we start proving HOW WE ARE RIGHT..Things become worse.And then we find the way out..we start pretending how we are happy without them,We change our priority orders..
But the question is , isn't the person same to whom you used to be so closer one time ?
Isn't the person same who had made you smile many time.,
Isn't the person same who had taken so many efforts to put smile on your face ?
Isn't the person same who had listened your every line quietly ?
Isn't the person same who who had been your supporter ?
Isn't the person same who made you realize your qualities ?
and Isn't the person same who provided that space which you couldn't find with anyone else ..
How can we forget our good days when we are suffering from the bad time of the relation ??
No relation is perfect,it can never be.Because we see different qualities in different people and we start expecting the same qualities from our close ones..and there starts the problems..Expectations ruin our relations and the things seems turning weird.
But again relation without expectation is like FLOWER WITHOUT SMELL.It is attractive but it can be more pleasant.
Exceptions should neither be raised from comparison with others nor they should come forcefully.
Keeping expectations is good but making them the base of relationship is wrong.
On the other hand , the person towards whom the expectations are being kept , should always make them complete to let the relation grow richer.
We must use the memories of the good time as medicines when we are suffering from bad time.For an example " Even tough we earn money today , we all save it in bank or somewhere just to use them whenever we will be in need "
We must overlook small mistakes of our friends rather than concluding them and complicating the relation.
We must keep the things for instance rather than keeping them in mind forever.
We must not cross minds of our friends.
Keeping our relation live with everyone is important because in this busy world no one has the time to listen you again from the scratch.Even we dont have time to tell again the same things to someone else who is our new friend.A little more effort can save our relationship.Never skip those efforts.And yes It is always at the END that makes us realize , how Beautiful was the START.So dont let the END come in your Relations.
Remember....
RELATIONSHIP IS BEST WHEN IT RUNS ON THE RULE OF NO RULES.!
We meet so many people.We choose who is going to be with us after we meet them for the first time.
Always the First impression comes with a lifetime validity and becomes the last impression.
Some people come closer and sometimes we allow some people to let them come closer.
Relations grows us.We share the things.We make them part of our daily life.
We decorate our relation giving different names.We raise them in our priority orders.We start keeping exceptions.We keep practicing every effort to make our friends happy.And then suddenly one day...things go down,they starts seeming irritating,they starts seeming time consuming,they start seeming of secondary importance.We start showing "ME & I" factors,we start proving HOW WE ARE RIGHT..Things become worse.And then we find the way out..we start pretending how we are happy without them,We change our priority orders..
But the question is , isn't the person same to whom you used to be so closer one time ?
Isn't the person same who had made you smile many time.,
Isn't the person same who had taken so many efforts to put smile on your face ?
Isn't the person same who had listened your every line quietly ?
Isn't the person same who who had been your supporter ?
Isn't the person same who made you realize your qualities ?
and Isn't the person same who provided that space which you couldn't find with anyone else ..
How can we forget our good days when we are suffering from the bad time of the relation ??
No relation is perfect,it can never be.Because we see different qualities in different people and we start expecting the same qualities from our close ones..and there starts the problems..Expectations ruin our relations and the things seems turning weird.
But again relation without expectation is like FLOWER WITHOUT SMELL.It is attractive but it can be more pleasant.
Exceptions should neither be raised from comparison with others nor they should come forcefully.
Keeping expectations is good but making them the base of relationship is wrong.
On the other hand , the person towards whom the expectations are being kept , should always make them complete to let the relation grow richer.
We must use the memories of the good time as medicines when we are suffering from bad time.For an example " Even tough we earn money today , we all save it in bank or somewhere just to use them whenever we will be in need "
We must overlook small mistakes of our friends rather than concluding them and complicating the relation.
We must keep the things for instance rather than keeping them in mind forever.
We must not cross minds of our friends.
Keeping our relation live with everyone is important because in this busy world no one has the time to listen you again from the scratch.Even we dont have time to tell again the same things to someone else who is our new friend.A little more effort can save our relationship.Never skip those efforts.And yes It is always at the END that makes us realize , how Beautiful was the START.So dont let the END come in your Relations.
Remember....
RELATIONSHIP IS BEST WHEN IT RUNS ON THE RULE OF NO RULES.!
RELATIONSHIP IS BEST WHEN IT RUNS ON THE RULE OF NO RULES.!
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